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Many men who beg for male chastity prove recalcitrant and - in short - behave badly just so they'll get 'punishment'. ™

So, the question is...

How to punish a man in chastity?

After all, what can you do to him?

Because...

Give him what he doesn't want.

And the good news is, there are a few of things you can do, all depending on how annoyed you get with him.

They are all something he's really not going to like, but one is a bit more drastic than the others, and it's something I'd recommend only in the extreme.

Punishment #1

Let's get the extreme and least-fun one out of the way first.

It's simply this: give him the key back and refuse to play the game.

In other words, treat him just like you would a child by withdrawing your attention from him.

I guarantee this will bring him into line very quickly.

If he's in chastity then the thought of being allowed free and just left free will stop him dead in his tracks.

But because it's quite an 'unfriendly' thing to do, I'd really do this only if it truly went beyond the pale and he simply wouldn't behave.

I don't expect my husband to be at my beck and call 24/7, even though we are in a female led relationship, although we do practice strict male chastity; but I do expect him to recognise and respect the effort it takes for me to keep him under lock and key and happy with it, and to accept my authority and obey my rules.

Punishment #2

This is the killer - and I can guarantee when you read what it is, you won't think it's punishment at all.

Until you try it on him and see how he reacts.

Then you might just think again.

It's simply this: give him a ruined orgasm.

It's easy: you just make sure his hands are restrained so he can't touch himself and then you treat him to a low, sensuous and deliciously torturous tease and denial session.

Only this time you're going to let him orgasm... BUT the instant he begins to orgasm, with the very first spasm, you let go of his penis and give him NO further stimulation whatsoever.

He will buck and moan and groan and beg, but you must NOT touch him.

Now, this is one of the worst things that can happen to a man, because while he gets the post-orgasm letdown, there is NONE of the pleasure normally associated with an orgasm.

He'll be devastated, I promise.

I know this from experience - because my husband, John, occasionally has to suffer ruined orgasms and he gets only one proper one a year.

And if you really want to turn the screws and make it almost unbearable for him, you can give him several ruined orgasms in a row, one after the other. I guarantee, when your man has had three, four, six, ten ruined orgasms in a row, he'll have achning balls and will be on his best behaviour for some considerable time.

Now, if you're sick and tired of the hype and nonsense you read on the 'net about male chastity and orgasm denial, and you're really looking for safe, sane and realistic advice and information, then it makes sense to get it from a genuine 24/7 couple who are living the lifestyle for real, doesn't it?

Punishment #3

More recently, since we have transitioned into a female-led relationship and John is bound by the oath of obedience he gave to me, I have started caning him if he displeases or disobeys me.

Now, John is not one of those men who enjoys this, so it's not a "funishment".

I restrain him on the bench and then cane him hard and without mercy so he understands the error of his ways (a minimum of 36 very hard strokes, and no warm up).

This is perhaps further than some people will want to go, but it works well for us, and it has definitely improved his behaviour all round.

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